IS EVERYTHING IN LIFE FATED???

I was waiting at the bus terminal for my bus ride home ... doing nothing.. just looking blankly at the passing people and suddenly i had this tot and wonder is everything in life fated.

PART I: NOTHING IS BY CONCIDENCE
Eg.. On one occassion in my teens, I had planned to meet up a group of friends at the fun fair at bukit batok, I had board the bus from Toh Tuck.. and had rode all the way to Bukit batok.. but i couldn't see the fun fair nor my friend, dejected, i travelled back home... i wonder.. had i not missed that fun fair... what will happen???????

Another occassion, when we were driving to Dino's house in Perak with my parents... I suddenly had constipation (which is quite rare) at a rest area.. it was raining very heavily then.. i was in the toilet for close to 20-30mins..... then we drove again when i came out.. and 5-10 mins down the road, we saw a freak fatal accident which occured like few minutes before us.... the point is... i wonder.. had i not had the constipation... what will happen??????

Bring this concept up a notch... if it was fated that i was to see the freak accident, and get to feel that me having the constipation had averted an accident .. subsequently this experience had given me the awareness that life is not as simple as we think it is.. and for me to write this blog.. then this blog was meant to be too? haha...then if i didn't know Dino, then i won't be driving to his house in Perak, then i won't get to see the accident and won't get to write this blog? Get what i mean.. there is so many logics behind each incident in our life that nothing seems to be by concidence..... haha.

PART II: ITS NOT LIFE THAT MATTERS, BUT WHAT YOU LEARN OUT OF IT
If everything in life has already been planned out, and every decision i make is not really a decision but it was orginally planned for it to happen... hmm i am quite loss for words.. except that if you can't control your life since it is pre-set.. what is yours to control is what you learn out of it.

Eg,.. If walking from Pt A to Pt B is pre-set.. what is not preset is how you want to walk there, you can walk from Pt A enjoying the scenary or you can walk from Pt A complaining and grumbling all the way.

Hah... if you can understand the above, you will understand the meaning of my blog.......

PART III: RANDOM TOTS
In a lighter tone....Just random tots,,,...What will happen if i didn't go to USA? Will I still meet Dino this life?? How will we get to meet then if it was preset that we will be together??? I wonder....